Solo Mum in Thailand- Day 4

So technically it’s day 6 but as 2 days were spent travelling here it’s Day 4 for us. The Cost of Living So one of the reasons I chose Thailand was because I heard that food is cheap and a little can go a long way. Now this is true, for one person travelling but…

School Holiday Drama (week 1)

So last week was a challenge, finding childcare was way harder then It should have been to allow me to go to work. Over quite a few years now I’ve received a lot of help and support from my mum to help look after the kids, firstly Shamaya, then Amzah, then Mini Muffin.. As each…

Anxiety and Me

Last night I realised Ive been a little lost…… I watched a video back of myself and whilst I recognised the person on the phone she seemed different…. Care free, happy…. Due to trauma……For the past three months I have lived in a world of confusion and anxiety. Often not remembering things or making a…

Don’t Suffer in Silence! #Breastfeeding

Please don’t suffer in pain! I’ve touched on my breastfeeding journey before but my gosh it was tough! I was told I’d get use to it and things would get better……I mean eventually it did but gosh I suffered and wanted to give up early on. Don’t be like me and many other mums, don’t…

10 Things That Make Me An Amazing Mother

Hey! So I thought I’d switch it up a bit and write about why I think I’m pretty great at Motherhood. Sometimes, I get so consumed in what I’m not doing as a mother that I forget to give myself props for what I actually do get right. So here I go…. 10 things that…

Mini Muffin is 4!!!

Now seriously! Where has my baby gone? He’s 4? I can’t believe it. I started this blog when he was 2 months old. How have we got here aye? So, I won’t pretend as if we done something extravagant for his birthday, because In my eyes we didn’t. I’m paying off a really expensive family…

Mother Instinct Is Crazy!

A couple nights ago in the wee hours of the morning, I was minding my own business dreaming about, “That of which a lady should never speak about” #singlemumlife 🤷🏽‍♀️ Anyway I hear this faint cough, now usually Shamaya is the coughing queen and during the night and can cough for hours…. So, usually she…

I Make No Apologies For The Mum That I Am!

So recently I’ve been feeling pretty darn attacked, this past week in particular I’ve been misunderstood and judged seeming to have become victim to others unnecessary input into my parenting. I mean on a good day this tends to happen naturally and I’m pretty use to it but recently I’ve honestly had zero tolerance. I…

I Woke Up In Sh*t!!!

Now seriously guys! “Motherhood” has hit the Next Bloody Level!  Yes! You read that correctly! I literally slept in shit! and to make matters worse it wasn’t even my own sh*t. I was gifted with a shitty pillow by ONE of the Rosebuds kids!  Now I suppose your wondering how this happened right? Well basically at…