Today’s Note

“Be so Good they can’t Ignore you! -Steve Martin -L x

How to Knock-Out Postnatal Depression (Repost)

Postnatal depression is overlooked and it’s a thing that needs to be spoken on more. Mum’s need to be understood by their family and friends when they express that they’re feeling depressed. I can relate so well to you if this is something you’re dealing with right now. Because I’m fighting postnatal depression.  “Yes, I have…

Solo mum takes on Thailand- Day 3

So we’re in Phuket Thailand. Just the kids and I…. There are moments where I think “What the fuck was I thinking!?” And others where I’m much more relaxed as are the kids and we are enjoying our break. Lately I’ve had a few family members question my choice of going to such a busy…

Forgiving The Human

So Jesus was 100% God and 100% man right? I suppose that means he could do anything right? Well duh’ he’s God after all, but if he is also 100% human then that means that there are limitations. Fully God and Fully man must mean he was 100% human, possibly flawed by his human body….

Let Me Build A King

Let me build a King Not like God made Adam no rib needed to build his Queen. For I am here, in every sense of the matter. Facts. Reality. I am here. So let me build a King…. Let me build a King by being his Queen, his confidant, his motivator, his rock. The attention…

Don’t Suffer in Silence! #Breastfeeding

Please don’t suffer in pain! I’ve touched on my breastfeeding journey before but my gosh it was tough! I was told I’d get use to it and things would get better……I mean eventually it did but gosh I suffered and wanted to give up early on. Don’t be like me and many other mums, don’t…

The Muse and The Heart

It’s been a while since I’ve shared some poetry, the Muse had left the building for sometime. I believe I may have been lost. I didn’t seek the moon or the stars for confirmation of God’s existence nor light a candle for connection to my ancestors. The heart was broken, my heart was broken. Not…

Loosing Hope or Evolving into a Realist

I had this interesting conversation with my therapist this week. Yes I have a therapist, I need one with 3 Jobs (one high NHS position) and 3 kids muddling through as a single mum. I explained to her that I’m loosing Hope and Faith in regards to relationships, especially good men and she responded with………

Letting Go for Father’s Day

Do you know the kinda mum I was? I was that mum that posted angry posts on Facebook every Father’s Day wishing “myself” a happy Father’s Day. For some reason this meant everything to me, to declare the fact I was both mum and dad. The breadwinner, provider and parents…..Looking back on it now I…

I Need More Blogs To Read and Follow Please!

You know sometimes we stumble on a random blog, no idea who the writer is, but the content is gripping and imaginative. Ok!? So basically I need you! I’m super busy and my feed is becoming flooded by big bloggers who post every 5mins or news related blogs. I can’t seem to find any new…