Loosing Hope or Evolving into a Realist

I had this interesting conversation with my therapist this week. Yes I have a therapist, I need one with 3 Jobs (one high NHS position) and 3 kids muddling through as a single mum. I explained to her that I’m loosing Hope and Faith in regards to relationships, especially good men and she responded with………

I Think I Want Another Baby 👶

Ok let’s emphasise on the word “Think” So timing wouldn’t actually be right and well I don’t have a husband *cough cough, I don’t have a boyfriend, friend with benefits…I could go on… Anyway, maybe it’s this desire I have to do things properly that is igniting this want for another baby. I want to…

I don’t look like I have kids!

Ok- so I’ll admit, I don’t look like I have kids. But, to be honest who wants to look like they are exhausted and constantly busy. I’m not saying I try hard not to look like I have kids but I certainly don’t go the extra mile to broadcast them through my face and outfits….

Letting Go for Father’s Day

Do you know the kinda mum I was? I was that mum that posted angry posts on Facebook every Father’s Day wishing “myself” a happy Father’s Day. For some reason this meant everything to me, to declare the fact I was both mum and dad. The breadwinner, provider and parents…..Looking back on it now I…

Plus Size in a Co-ord!?

OK, i’ll admit it, Co-ords and I have a very love hate relationship. I love them……. I just hate them on me . You know that mid-rift area where flesh shows, yeah….. well my belly usually hangs out of that. Anyway I was feeling somewhat risqué last weekend and thought I’d not give a damn…

The Stubbornness of Mini Muffin

Ok to be fair he’s a cute, he can charm the pants off of anyone and has this… “Hey everyone, look at me, I’m freaking adorable…..give me attention” look on his face. I mean heck when he talks he sings out every word. The definition of cuteness. He’d make someone that didn’t want kids seek…

Mini Muffin is 4!!!

Now seriously! Where has my baby gone? He’s 4? I can’t believe it. I started this blog when he was 2 months old. How have we got here aye? So, I won’t pretend as if we done something extravagant for his birthday, because In my eyes we didn’t. I’m paying off a really expensive family…

My Most Useful Breastfeeding Tool

So I figured….. Whats the point in having a Blog…. being a ”blogger” but not actually talking about things I actually know a lot about like breastfeeding?! Breastfeeding can be tough and whoever lied and said its easy and a piece of cake down right lied or had that easy baby that latched on perfectly,…