Bully My Daughter!…..I Think NOT!

Disclaimer: This post is deadly serious I apologise for the swearing, and the anger in this but The Devil is trying me today! Let me start from the beginning…….My daughter joined a 1 week summer workshop where the children learn instruments or if they are already trained then learn songs to create a big show…

School Holiday Drama (week 1)

So last week was a challenge, finding childcare was way harder then It should have been to allow me to go to work. Over quite a few years now I’ve received a lot of help and support from my mum to help look after the kids, firstly Shamaya, then Amzah, then Mini Muffin.. As each…

Don’t Suffer in Silence! #Breastfeeding

Please don’t suffer in pain! I’ve touched on my breastfeeding journey before but my gosh it was tough! I was told I’d get use to it and things would get better……I mean eventually it did but gosh I suffered and wanted to give up early on. Don’t be like me and many other mums, don’t…

10 Things That Make Me An Amazing Mother

Hey! So I thought I’d switch it up a bit and write about why I think I’m pretty great at Motherhood. Sometimes, I get so consumed in what I’m not doing as a mother that I forget to give myself props for what I actually do get right. So here I go…. 10 things that…

My Untold story of Postnatal Depression

It’s funny, but at the time I don’t think I realised I was even depressed, I was certainly “something” but depression probably wasn’t what I would of called it. I watched the movie Tully yesterday and I’ll be honest, memories that I buried deep started to re-surface. Memories of my old home, my past relationship…

Loosing Hope or Evolving into a Realist

I had this interesting conversation with my therapist this week. Yes I have a therapist, I need one with 3 Jobs (one high NHS position) and 3 kids muddling through as a single mum. I explained to her that I’m loosing Hope and Faith in regards to relationships, especially good men and she responded with………

I Think I Want Another Baby 👶

Ok let’s emphasise on the word “Think” So timing wouldn’t actually be right and well I don’t have a husband *cough cough, I don’t have a boyfriend, friend with benefits…I could go on… Anyway, maybe it’s this desire I have to do things properly that is igniting this want for another baby. I want to…

I don’t look like I have kids!

Ok- so I’ll admit, I don’t look like I have kids. But, to be honest who wants to look like they are exhausted and constantly busy. I’m not saying I try hard not to look like I have kids but I certainly don’t go the extra mile to broadcast them through my face and outfits….

Letting Go for Father’s Day

Do you know the kinda mum I was? I was that mum that posted angry posts on Facebook every Father’s Day wishing “myself” a happy Father’s Day. For some reason this meant everything to me, to declare the fact I was both mum and dad. The breadwinner, provider and parents…..Looking back on it now I…

The Stubbornness of Mini Muffin

Ok to be fair he’s a cute, he can charm the pants off of anyone and has this… “Hey everyone, look at me, I’m freaking adorable…..give me attention” look on his face. I mean heck when he talks he sings out every word. The definition of cuteness. He’d make someone that didn’t want kids seek…