Arrrrggggghhh! It’s so freaking annoying!
Spending time to get to know someone, making the effort and all that energy invested into one person for them to meet you and ghosts you.
To be honest, I go through waves of caring and then I go through moments where it doesn’t bother me because I myself didn’t notice I’d been ghosted.
But you know when it’s really frustrating? It’s when you actually like a person, you’ve invested days sometimes months into getting to know a person and they meet you and disappear. Imagine what it does to ones confidence….
That date I went on in my post Just finished yet ANOTHER Tinder date! Ghosted me. He wasn’t right for me, but he could have been decent and ended that encounter respectively. It’s soo freaking rude!
I was really fed up of Tinder, and decided it wouldn’t join me in the new year. I’ve appreciated meeting people and enjoyed my many many dates. It’s certainly helped rebuild my confidence. But it has equally knocked my confidence especially when many that I encounter have a black girl fetish and really have no interest in being in a relationship. I’ll write about this in more detail in the next post.
Now, I’ve left the world of Tinder….. maybe I should start by making eye contact with humans on the train 🤷🏽♀️ I can just imagine how creepy I’d look!
Truth is, I don’t know how to meet people. Everyone’s so busy and it’s hard to catch someone’s eye when they’re fixed to their phone screen. Nor do I want to look weird staring at people hoping they’ll notice me. But, whatever. I blame society, not me…..🤣
I can’t allow being Ghosted to cause a new anxiety so I better let this online dating thing go……
Signs into POF…………
F*ck my life!
Until Next Time.