My Most Useful Breastfeeding Tool

So I figured….. Whats the point in having a Blog…. being a ”blogger” but not actually talking about things I actually know a lot about like breastfeeding?! Breastfeeding can be tough and whoever lied and said its easy and a piece of cake down right lied or had that easy baby that latched on perfectly,…

Breastfeeding Youtube Channel!

Hey All So I guess i’m trying to put myself out there a bit more to showcase my personality and to educate the masses on breastfeeding. I love Youtube but have never been very great at editing or creating content but I suppose ‘one must move with the times aye… Well anyway, I need your…

Black Women from the Hood are Independent Badasses

I never woke up one day and thought “Hey, I’m gonna be an strong independent black women who hold’s sh*t down”… In fact like most little girls I imagined my wedding, my husband, my family, my 2.5 kids and a beautiful home. I played mummy’s and babies with my dolls and imagined my soulmate. But…

I Need More Blogs To Read and Follow Please!

You know sometimes we stumble on a random blog, no idea who the writer is, but the content is gripping and imaginative. Ok!? So basically I need you! I’m super busy and my feed is becoming flooded by big bloggers who post every 5mins or news related blogs. I can’t seem to find any new…

Happy Mother’s Day!

On Sunday it was Mother’s Day here in the U.K. On that day all mums are meant to be spoilt and shown how much they are appreciated. My Tribe are a bit older now and understand the concept of Mother’s Day which is extremely beneficial to me as I can manipulate them into bugging their…

Conversations with the Mistress….

(Ring Ring) Wife: “Hello, is this “She”, Mistress: “Yes, this is “She”, Wife: “So “She” why the hell did you do this to me?” Mistress: “I’m sorry, I was weak, this life got too peak. A single man was too hard to seek. I’m sorry; this is hard, I can barely speak…..” Wife: “Sister, you speak, this…

Mother Instinct Is Crazy!

A couple nights ago in the wee hours of the morning, I was minding my own business dreaming about, “That of which a lady should never speak about” #singlemumlife 🤷🏽‍♀️ Anyway I hear this faint cough, now usually Shamaya is the coughing queen and during the night and can cough for hours…. So, usually she…

I’ll do it anyway!

Recently, someone told me they didn’t think I could do it…….So I thought….. F* it! I’ll do it anyway! The more others loose faith in me…. The more I’m determined to prove them wrong. I wonder why this is………. I wonder what drives me to behave this way……. -L x

When I realised I Loved You

I realised I loved you when I said goodbye I realised I loved you when I watched you leave I realised I loved you when I sat an listened to you express your feelings for another woman I realised I loved you when I let you go to be with another woman I knew I…